Some people unknowingly end up in relationships with married people. While one would think it would be hard to hide, some cheaters are masters at deception.
There are a few warning signs to be aware of. Some are obvious, some are not so obvious. For the sake of not having to repeatedly say he or she, we'll just assume the other party is a man, although these do apply to women as well.
If you met him through a dating site, he has no public picture on his profile. Many married people will have no public picture but will offer to email you one. This is because they don't want anyone they know seeing it.
He only communicates through email or text message. Some people prefer these methods of communication. However, when that is the only method of communication, it's a definite sign something's wrong. A married person can easily get away with texting or email with their spouse in the other room. Phone calls can be overheard.
He never allows you to meet any of his family or friends. Married men do not usually introduce their girlfriends to people that also know their wives.
He never invites you to his place. This is particularly a warning sign if he won't tell you where
he lives. A lot of people will even use the excuse that they live with their sister or a female roommate. Trust me, its not likely his sister!
He says he is "separated". Married men will frequently say they are "separated" rather than divorced. Its always wise to question what "separated" really means. You might be better off telling him to call you when he's divorced.
He never takes you in public. If he never takes you out, he may just be lazy or cheap. He may also be trying to avoid being seen by anyone he knows.
If it is a long distance relationship, he only communicates when he is in your town. If he suddenly goes dead silent when at home, its a sign of a problem.
He never adds you too his social networking friend lists. If you've been dating any length of time, he should add you. If not, he may be trying to hide something.
He disappears completely on weekends and holidays. Its more difficult for him to tell his wife he is working on a weekend or holiday.
He is wearing a wedding ring. *BIG FLASHING LIGHTS* He's married! If he gives you a dumb excuse, like he wears it to keep women from flirting with him, don't buy it. On the off chance it were true, he'd have to be a complete egotistical jerk.
None of this is, of course, set in stone. There could be reasons he behaves a certain way other than to try to hide something. However, too many of the signs above are at least a reason to question things. Talk to him about any concerns you may have. Good communication is vital for a healthy relationship.
*Disclaimer* The above information is not intended to imply that I am judgmental. I am a very nonjudgmental reader. I will read for most anyone in any type of relationship and I do not interject my personal opinion into the reading answers. The above is only intended to help those avoid a potentially painful situation they may not want to be involved in.
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